Live Lab™ EAR: Practice EAR Statements to De-escalate

Learn how to calm the Reactive Brain and activate the Thinking Brain in  this 60-minute 1:1 coaching session. 

In this Live Lab, you will learn how to use our CalmB4Think™ method:

  • start with an EAR Statement
  • followed by a Thinking Statement

This skill is the ultimate de-escalation and high-conflict management technique. You will learn how to get emotionally unhooked first, and then quickly use the CalmB4Think method to calm the other person and shift them into problem-solving.

This is the ultimate de-escalation technique.

If you're involved in a high-conflict situation, whether at work, at home, on boards or anywhere,  long-term relationship at home. Even our best efforts can blow up and cause lots of damage and drain our energy and time.

This Live Lab teaches you how to increase your ability to handle verbal high-conflict situations whether in-person, on the phone, video or in any verbal communication

How Live Lab Will Help You

You'll benefit from this Live Lab intense practice session with our experienced coach. It is:

  • available for anyone in any part of the world

  • 60 minutes long

  • specifically focused on our verbal communication de-escalation and shifting methods

What to expect

  • Your Live Lab coach will meet you on Zoom and after a brief introductions, you will dive right into practicing the skills.

  • The Live Lab is skills only. It is not therapy nor legal advice.

  • It will work ideally for you to have taken this course in advance (but it's not required): De-escalation Technique: Talk to the Right Brain


What happens after purchase

You will be taken to a coaching page where you'll schedule your Live Lab session.

$60.00 USD


Last updated on December 23, 2023

  1. Neither High Conflict Institute nor its consultants or coaches are providing legal services or advice, nor therapy services or advice, but rather informing, educating and helping participants practice the skills that may be considered in high-conflict disputes.
  2. HCI encourages Live Lab participants to seek ongoing consultation with local professionals for handling high-conflict cases.
  3. HCI and its consultants and coaches will not be held liable for any actions and decisions made by Live Lab participants in relation to cases or situations of any kind.
  4. HCI's Live Labs are intended to be confidential, but do not have the confidentiality protections of a therapist-client or attorney-client relationship.
  5. Refunds are considered on a case-by-case basis and will be assessed an administrative fee.

By checking the box below, you can access the video De-Escalation Technique: Talk to the Right Brain. NOTE: this is an additional $47.00 USD.

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